Hee hee - welcome picosecond! I think debating the width of a processor is rarely enlightening, or satisfying. Although, in rare cases where the databus, address bus, register file, ALU, and instructions are all the same fixed size, there is at least an answer.
There's a nice pair of articles about the genesis of the 6809 somewhere... ah here they are, 3 in fact, again in a single PDF.
A Microprocessor for the Revolution: The 6809, by Terry Ritter and Joel Boney, in BYTE, Jan 1979.
Part 1: Design Philosophy
Part 2: Instruction Set Dead Ends, Old Trails and Apologies
Part 3: Final Thoughts